Wednesday, May 01, 2019

The Destruction of Men

A Fantasy for the SexesMale and female gender symbols in fire of love

    By Daphne Patai April 17, 2019


Op-Ed: In contemporary America, women and men still act out ancient roles. From the point of view of the men, the society is a matriarchy: Women have physically less demanding jobs — with the sole exception of childbirth, by now a rare event in the average woman’s life. Women sustain far fewer injuries on the job, are not required to go to war, take better care of their health, and for these reasons and many others enjoy a lifespan significantly longer than that of men.

In this society, men use their physical strength, when necessary, on women’s behalf.  Women claim to be equal partners when that suits them and claim to be entitled to special consideration when that suits them. They insist on autonomy in maintaining or aborting pregnancies, but at the same time, they determine the fathers’ duties-and rights, if any. Women claim child support. They can either demand or impede fathers’ continuing involvement with their offspring, as the women see fit. The result is that women have advantages over men in child custody suits, just as they have learned to use charges of child sexual abuse and domestic violence.

Though dozens of studies show that women, by their own account, initiate violence against their domestic partners as often as (if not more often than) men, and cause as much injury when weapons are involved, somehow the social mythologies of this country keep that fact from gaining broad public attention, let alone credence.

But worst of all, in terms of the interactions of daily life, are women’s emotional demands on men. At home, men routinely sit through harangues that demonstrate women’s greater verbal skills and emotional agility. Men, inarticulate, try to figure out what is required of them in a given situation. Not by accident, verbal therapies in this society archetypically began with men listening and women speaking. Even as little boys, males learn to be in awe of girls’ verbal fluency. The feeling of ineptness, of being no match for females at the verbal and emotional level, is the common inheritance of all but a few exceptional males.

The matriarchy here described, structured to protect women’s interests as against men’s (and, ironically, having conned men into defending such a set up) puts a premium on women’s special social and emotional skills. Everywhere, women engage men and one another in personal conversation, offering and receiving disclosures, demanding commiseration, giving advice, spreading censure. Men, trained to keep to their workhorse style, are uncomfortably cornered by women, in the workplace, and at home, demanding that they speak from the heart.  When asked “How are you?” women give a detailed and precise accounting. In offices, they spend valuable time discussing personal matters.

Studies are done on the economic costs of smoking and poor health, but not of the costs of women’s work habits.

In the private sphere, women endlessly complain that men are not on their wavelength. An observer of this society, coming into a shop toward the end of a conversation and hearing one woman say heatedly to another, “… stood there like a stone and said not a word!” knows that a man is being described. Or on the street, overhearing one woman say, in anger, to another, “It was like talking to a plot of grass!” knows that an unsatisfactory encounter with a man is being recounted.

At home and on the job, men are reminded of their emotional inferiority and verbal inadequacy. Nowhere are they as quick as women in their emotional responses, their verbalization of those responses, or their acuity in gauging the dynamics of interaction or situation. And constantly they are reminded of this disadvantage. Women berate them, browbeat them, even physically attack them out of frustration at these characteristics.

Somehow it is always men who are to blame. Even in the schoolyard, little boys suffer from puzzlement, pain, and ostracism as little girls make comments and express expectations boys cannot quite grasp or respond to. Thus, boys are trained into a lifelong awareness of inferiority.  At home, mothers demand expression of their sons’ and husbands’ feelings and berate them when they are confused and reticent.  At work, women exchange knowing smiles signifying that   men ‘Just don’t get it.”

Finally, some men are organizing around the issue of emotional harassment, the problem that hitherto has had no name. A sophisticated analysis of the matriarchal bases of this social practice springs up. Everyone denies that it has anything at all to do with biology, which allows women to be fully blamed for this domineering and demanding behavior, highlights women’s shortcomings, and pushes them into corrective political action.

And so, a men’s movement develops.
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Saturday, September 13, 2014

Back to Blogging: War Addition

Why I do not support going to war with ISIS, ISIL or whatever. If Obama takes us to war there is no doubt that HE would make matters worse. His track record of accomplishments is dismal to say the least. I believe the best way to assure the American people that they would be safe is have Obama on their side.

Tuesday, March 20, 2012

The War Against Voter ID Laws

The Obama administration has gone to war against States that have passed Voter ID Laws. Despite the ubiquity of photo IDs, the administration claims that access to them is impossible for racial minorities. Therefore requiring them to prove their identity for voting purposes is de facto discrimination against them. The Obama administration isn't really this stupid, they really know that to get government services and access requires these very same IDs and they understand that these States also have instituted free of cost IDs. This is merely an extension of Critical Race Theory that we have heard so much about lately. Critical Race Theory claims that since racism is embedded with the core structure of society and cannot be expunged through any means racism must addressed by punitive counter-racism for the benefit of the discriminated parties. So therefore, the administration is pursuing a goal of allowing Blacks and Hispanics to commit voter fraud in an effort to "equalize" the political playing field. The same thinking is behind the DOJ prosecution of "White" perpetrated voter intimidation and their pass when Blacks are accused of the same. This is merely the tip of the iceberg, the most visible. This mindset is filtering down to every level of the Justice bureaucracy and to every sort of crime. Expect to see more excuses for crimes perpetrated by minorities and more prosecutions for vaguely defined "hate" crimes by "Whites.

Tuesday, March 13, 2012

Chuckle of the Day: Homeless Hotspots

This NYT article is a hoot. Though I'm not homeless, I would love to be a 4G Internet Hotspot for $20 a day.

Thursday, March 01, 2012

A Tribute

There is simply nothing to add to this.

Andrew Breitbart Dead at 43

I was saddened by the news today that the proud warrior of truth Andrew Breitbart passed away. May his family take comfort in that his friends loved him and his enemies hated him. That is the nature of brave souls that seek the truth. He will be missed by all.

Friday, February 24, 2012

The Official Obama Guide to Governing

“To be GOVERNED is to be watched, inspected, spied upon, directed, law-driven, numbered, regulated, enrolled, indoctrinated, preached at, controlled, checked, estimated, valued, censured, commanded, by creatures who have neither the right nor the wisdom nor the virtue to do so. To be GOVERNED is to be at every operation, at every transaction noted, registered, counted, taxed, stamped, measured, numbered, assessed, licensed, authorized, admonished, prevented, forbidden, reformed, corrected, punished. It is, under pretext of public utility, and in the name of the general interest, to be place under contribution, drilled, fleeced, exploited, monopolized, extorted from, squeezed, hoaxed, robbed; then, at the slightest resistance, the first word of complaint, to be repressed, fined, vilified, harassed, hunted down, abused, clubbed, disarmed, bound, choked, imprisoned, judged, condemned, shot, deported, sacrificed, sold, betrayed; and to crown all, mocked, ridiculed, derided, outraged, dishonored. That is government; that is its justice; that is its morality."

Pierre-Joseph Proudhon, General Idea of the Revolution in the Nineteenth Century

Obama's Burning Quran Scandal

Since the administration was caught red-handed burning Qurans in Afghanistan the only way out is the immediate resignation of the Defense Secretary. Obama and the political leadership of the Army must be held accountable for their actions. If Abu Ghraib taught us anything it is that such heinous villainy must be met with thousands of newspaper admonishments, calls for resignations and countless political cartoons of Obama and SecDef Gates taking flame-throwers to the Qurans.

Bogus Co-ops to Rip-Off Taxpayers

Michelle Malkin is on top of another Slush Fund for Friends operation by Obama. You can guarantee that these healthcare co-ops go belly up. Like Obama's "green energy" subsidies where the money disappeared into executive bonuses and salaries, these co-ops are just another way for Obama to pay his friends from the taxpayer pockets. The more I read about this shit the more I believe that only Sarah Palin could stop these ripoffs. Perhaps Romney wouldn't be tempted to use the public treasury in this way, only because I think he's so rich. But I wouldn't bet on it.

Update on Pres. Food Stamp Algae

Mockery of our douchebag President doesn't get any better than this. I find it amazing that his audience didn't burst out laughing. Yet again, his audiences are preselected for the attribute of credulousness towards anything remotely juvenile.

Thursday, February 23, 2012

Algae?

Obama has gone full unicorn. Obama doesn't think that exploring and drilling for more oil is the answer to rising fuel prices. His answer is make gas out of algae. Fucking algae, are you shitting me? We use about 20 million barrels of oil a day. I don't think they can gear up by summer to reduce the price of gas by a billionth of a penny/gallon. Obama must fart rainbows.